Love and Hate

Got a frenz told me a story yesterday..erm..regarding his own experience when he joined a camp..
That's got a activities in the camp,everyone of them have a piece of bread,and they allow to add on wasabi,tabasco,and some other sauce..u can add as much as u wan,can make it become horrible..and then,u give it to the person u hate most...
Then,my frenz really did what the host said..he put many thing and make the bread look like a piece of shit...then,after that,the host say again "everything is fair in this world,how u treat ppl,ppl also will treat u the same way..so,u will taste how's the feeling on day if u do the same to other ppl..so now,u have to eat ur own bread,so that..."...
My frenz said he was stun when he heard that..of coz,he have a piece of shit on his hand and he suppose to give it to the person that he hate...so how?no choice,he have to swallow all of it..but luckily,his group member share with him,but till the end..all of them suffer because of the shit...
Well...that's not a funny thing actually...not because they all suffering because of the 'bread of shit',but is the moral value of the story...
If before,then maybe i'll do just like my frenz did,put as much effort as i can to make it like a shit,just to 'punish' someone...but now...i dun think i'll be the same..i'll eat the bread myself..
WHY?? not because i love bread,not because i'm hungry...
but,is because i have no time to waste..
since he is the one i hate,since he is the one i dun like,and he also feel the same to me..then,why i have to spent so many time just to make a bread for him?maybe i take 20minute to done the bread,but,i can use the 20minute to read some book also...god know maybe i can finish 1 chapter of Harry Potter with 20minute...
At the moment we hate someone,at the moment i do something to avenge,actually i'm wasting my own time also...it's ok if i write it out,in blog or in diary,or maybe talk to someone else..because it's just a release of emotion...but,still wan to take action or what on that ppl,i dun think it's a good idea...
Life was short,and it's limited..we still have lot to do in our life...i still wan to complete my study,rushing for assignment,learn violin,hang out with frenz...and after that i still wan learn driving...i still have lot to do,maybe to keep on my promise with my lovest one,maybe is sharing happy time with my frenz..
So,at the moment u hate someone,u are also wasting ur time to love someone...is it worth to feel sorry to someone u love just because someone who dislike u?nah....it's not worth at all...
So so...pay attention on someone who is worth u spent time on them...
as for those who is in ur blacklist..just treat him as a bread that full of tabasco and wasabi,throw it into rubbish dumb,coz that's the only place they should belong...


ps:somemore,those sauce not very cheap,what a waste to spent money in this kind of shit thing,rite?

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1. Do not worry if you make mistakes. Making mistakes is one way we can learn and improve in our life. There is no one that has never made any mistake. The most important thing here is you realize that you have made mistakes and do not repeat the same mistakes again. You learn more from mistakes you have made than any other way.

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